Some Secrets for a successful, loving Female Lead Relationship
A few words from Marcia about punishment: “I really resisted punishing Dave. I felt it was too much like that porn version of domination, the woman in the cat suit and holding a whip. I know Dave used to fantasize about being beaten. I had no desire to do so. Delilah kept insisting we try …
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Discipline is a very difficult area to explore with newly dominant women. You do not want to hurt your man, nor should you enjoy it. Virtually all of my clients resisted this concept and when they followed through, realized how important it is. It will also profoundly affect your relationship in the most positive way …
If you find that your ability to say commands diminishes with time and then gets better after your command and control meeting, you may want to use the “purple” trick regularly. (See “Exercise in giving commands“) No one, especially a dominant, wants to be told they are doing something wrong, especially by their submissive, but you …
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This is an example how a loving FLR should be. Two people, in love with each other yet the woman is the dominant and her man is submissive. I’m sitting on my couch, reading a magazine when I hear the door open and Rob has come home from work. “Hi honey! I’m home!” He comes over to …
Continue reading “A Night at Ms. Delilah’s – A story of a typical evening at home.”
Ordering, or commanding, someone to do something is not what most of us have been taught. We learned to ask, to be polite, but as we discussed earlier, this does not work well in a loving FLR. Your man is submitting to you, he is serving and obeying and needs to be told what to …
