One great advantage to women in an FLR is to be able to get their husband to do chores around the house. It is expected and should be the norm. He needs to have assigned tasks that he will do without prompting. Failure to live up to your standards is reason for discipline. However, we …
Author Archives: Delilah Rose
Panties, Crossdressing and Feminization
Articles of women’s clothing being worn by submissive men seems to be quite abundant in the FemDom world. It can have many uses and meanings. Let’s first talk about total feminization. This is something I don’t understand as part of a loving FLR although you will see books on FLRs that promote it. Why you …
Sex in an FLR
It is quite remarkable the range of sexuality there is in mankind. Rob could have had sex daily and others weekly. Some have essentially lost the desire, or don’t find it is that important or physically are limited, often by medication side effects. It seems that the longer you go without it, it starts becoming …
Witnessing and Sharing
This is a concept few really know about but is extremely powerful and I feel very important. Witnessing is having someone outside of the two of you know and witness the nature of your relationship. Think of a wedding. You announce your marriage to the world and must have witnesses. Generally, you would only want to …
A Night at Ms. Delilah’s – misbehaving
This is how I often handle my slave when his behavior disappoints me. Bear in mind, Rob, as a person, never disappoints me but his actions may. I’m home relaxing on the couch when I hear the door and Rob is coming home. We exchange expressions of love and kiss. “Come here my slave.” Rob …
Marcia and Dave’s experience with punishment
A few words from Marcia about punishment: “I really resisted punishing Dave. I felt it was too much like that porn version of domination, the woman in the cat suit and holding a whip. I know Dave used to fantasize about being beaten. I had no desire to do so. Delilah kept insisting we try …
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Spare the rod and spoil the slave
Discipline is a very difficult area to explore with newly dominant women. You do not want to hurt your man, nor should you enjoy it. Virtually all of my clients resisted this concept and when they followed through, realized how important it is. It will also profoundly affect your relationship in the most positive way …
When you have trouble maintaining the dominant role
If you find that your ability to say commands diminishes with time and then gets better after your command and control meeting, you may want to use the “purple” trick regularly. (See “Exercise in giving commands“) No one, especially a dominant, wants to be told they are doing something wrong, especially by their submissive, but you …
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A Night at Ms. Delilah’s – A story of a typical evening at home.
This is an example how a loving FLR should be. Two people, in love with each other yet the woman is the dominant and her man is submissive. I’m sitting on my couch, reading a magazine when I hear the door open and Rob has come home from work. “Hi honey! I’m home!” He comes over to …
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Exercise in giving commands
Ordering, or commanding, someone to do something is not what most of us have been taught. We learned to ask, to be polite, but as we discussed earlier, this does not work well in a loving FLR. Your man is submitting to you, he is serving and obeying and needs to be told what to …